Relax, I was told.
Accept what isn’t, I was told.
Life isn’t complete without children, I was told.
Fertility treatment will cause cancer, I was told.
Choose a new path, I was told.
We beat ourselves and others up about negative thinking, loading on guilt and feeling shame. Look at it from a different perspective and consider that it’s actually positive thinking that can be toxic. Our so called negative thinking and feelings are natural and normal human responses. They serve us!
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Blaming ourselves for infertility is both unnecessary and unhelpful. Ask yourself this: if you had another kind of health problem, would you blame that on yourself?
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